I've heard a lot of arguments against the 4/3 system, some good, some not so much, but focus has never been one of them. Focus-assist or focus peaking is available on all the new micro 4/3 cameras, although not the gh3. Practice manual focusing and a large lcd screen might help in this area. The reason most dslr's do not have this feature is because of the mirror, coupled with the optical view finder (as opposed to an electronic view finder).
The 2x crop factor is both a blessing and a curse, depending on your point of view. This might only affect people who use legacy glass with an adapter on a 4/3 camera and shoot wide angle. But there are plenty of dedicated m43 lenses that are available and for a relatively decent cost that will cover the wides, all the way down to the 7.5mm fisheyes. Shooting telephoto or wildlife will obviously benefit from the crop factor.
Typically, the arguments against 4/3 are resolution of the "small" sensor and lack of depth of field control (the 2x crop factor also includes doubling the depth of field, relative to a 35mm camera). The resolution arguments are pretty much invalid with the new generation of sensors. The out-of-the-camera jpeg's coming out of the e-m5 are very impressive. Which leaves lack of depth-of-field control. Admittedly, it will never be as thin as a 35mm-sized sensor, but it is still possible to achieve with the right lenses. There are numerous f1.8 lenses available and some f0.95 lenses if you have the cash that will help achieve thin DOF. Personally, I think overdone DOF effects are a crutch used by bad photographers, but to each their own.
The real benefits of m43 is the high quality coupled with take-anywhere portability.
With photography, it all comes down to a game of trade-offs. Know the weaknesses of each system and accept and work around them.