Agreed, I have also not seen the "gap in the list issue", nor seen any reports of it, but definitely am glad to hear about it now and interested to know more details if there are any.
Regarding object select-and-move and opening properties, both can be done from the 3D preview, as Jo said. I'm still not seeing tremendous benefit in simultaneously selecting and focusing the object in the node network, though I agree there is a certain degree of intuitiveness to it. But practically speaking, as Jo said, refocusing the node network could be very undesirable behavior, depending on how you work.
I do agree that the node lists should be improved a bit to have better sorting, hierarchical display, etc.
- Oshyan