Would like to see a test render showing the extent of your success so far.
It is hard to say what you should do because There is no indication here that you are even close. For example, Are you seeing any effect? Are you almost where you want to be?
If you are really close with a straight render in may be just a case of needing to out put an .exr. I found in some of my tests with luminance that it only seemed like I was getting bad results, but when I out put an .exr and tone mapped, I saw the light was all there and looking good.
It may also be that you are close to where you want to be with settings for luminance, but now need to play with other parameters.
We could post links to other threads (or you could search the forum;)) Or you you could just post a render of your best results so far, along with the settings numbers, or even just post the .tgd. Or we can just keep guessing... Its fun either way.
By the way, your english reads just fine so far.