I'm loving the game. So far I've dumped a little over 50 hours into it since release and currently only have one more army to recruit (i've been side quest happy too hehe

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If you ever played NWN the controls and combat are much closer to it. And yeh, theres a lot of cutscenes but this happens a lot more in the beginning origin stories, and once you start getting in the game combat happens more then story (but still a lot of story

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As for combat its a little harder then most games I've found. I'm playing normal and its more like most games "hard" mode. As njeneb mentioned, pausing and picking actions becomes very important at times as quite a few battles require planning on how to get everything down.
Theres a whole "tactics" system you can set up where the characters basically will automatically use skills based off certain things. It's like a customizable ai to run your characters. For example you can go "if surrounded by >3 enemies" => "user whirlwind". I don't really every use them and have turned off everyones tactics and do it manually. This takes more time, but also I know how to control my characters better then then some ai.
The DLC is pretty good. The Stone Prisioner (free with the game if you purchase it) is almost a must as Shale is my favorite character probably. The Wardens Keep is quite cool too, and has a nice set of armor thats nice to use until you can wear the dragon blood armor (if you have it). Also wardens keep adds the random encounter which enables you to get the best weapon in the game. The warden armor is also upgradeable if you sell it to the smith at at the keep once you beat it, and then leave and come to buy it back (he upgrades it to dragonbone).
The story is great though. Some pretty dang tough decisions that all fall into morally grey areas. Theres no real "moral" system of good/evil in the game or any way of tracking it. You more worry about each individual party members preferences and reactions to your choices (as some critical choices will cause party members to try to kill you

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Also, a small hints (not really game story ruining just helpful highlight below):
So far I've essentially done: Shale => Wardens Keep => Redcliffe/Denerim => Circle of Magi => Orzimmar => and now about to head to dwarfs. If I were to redo I'd go to shale=>wardens keep=> circle of magi => redcliffe => orzimmar so far... circle of magi just had some things a little more useful.
Save up all your gems, elfroot, runes. It helps later on. Also save up some gold.The toolset is pretty cool, but I havn't played much around with it. Bioware has stated they will be doing more DLC later, and you can expect a great mod community.
I highly suggest this addon made by a bioware developer:
http://social.bioware.com/project/463/It is a chest for your campsite. If your like me and like storing a lot of things for later, very useful.
anyways, off to play it more