Rather than most people I think you should keep the edge sharpness untouched.
If you reduce the density of the cloud and reduce the fake internal scattering and/or light propagation you'll end up with more transparent clouds with more gradients in color and density which will give a more natural look.
I agree with Michael (PG) about the scale, I'd reduce it by a factor 2 or so.
(The reason you have to reduce the fake internal scattering and/or light propagation (depends on the mix setting which of the 2 to adjust the most) is that when you lower the cloud density the effect of glow power will look stronger (sort of independently from the actual glow power setting).)
I hope this helps, but it will probably confuse you even more
Martin