Quote from: Seth on May 05, 2010, 07:13:46 PM
but you must understand that asking and criticize without bringing anything positive can be misjudge.
I thought my "hurray" was positive (it would have been among Texans) but it was mis-judged so
even positive things can be taken as negative. I can see how even we might say it to mean
"Thanks for stating the obvious buster" but I never saw it coming. I think that expression must be
used much more often with bitter sarcasm on the eastern side of the Atlantic. We don't take offense
for something like that even if it was meant how I translated it above. I truely was trying to thank
Martin for the information that finally made me understand what was going on. His reaction was like
a slap in the face. I have to admit that I was offended for having my "thank you" thrown back at
me like that. But the first thing I did was to go into his profile and see where he was from. Then I
realized it was a culture clash. We were both saying one thing but hearing another.
One thing is for certain. Martin learned English from the British and not from Americans. The British
(especially the English) use sarcasm far more than we do. Last year my wife and I went on a field trip to
Germany and the field trip leader was a German who learned English in Texas. That was a real treat!
His name is Martin Sander and he is a very famous paleontologist from the University of Bonn. I
absolutely didn't have to put my guard up with him because he learned all of the Texas lingo and
expressions at the University of Texas.
Quote from: Seth on May 05, 2010, 07:13:46 PM
Maybe this is like dandelO said just personnality clash
No. It's a "culture clash". It's like an American touching a
middle-easterner with the left hand. The Arab doesn't realize that we
use toilet paper so we are just as likely to use either hand to wipe our
behinds and we wash both hands after going to the bathroom so, to us,
both hands are the same. Americans don't realize that Arabs have no
toilet paper (its harder to get rid of it in the desert) so they use the
left hand for cleaning their behinds and reserve their right hands for
things like dealing with people. They have limited water in the desert
to wash their hands anyhow.
Quote from: Seth on May 05, 2010, 07:13:46 PM
So of course you should try to understand TG2...
I have and will continue to do so. But maybe I need to thank people more.
I'll just have to be more careful how I go about it. Personally, I don't feel
comfortable filling the forum up with my pictures. Besides avoiding taking up
more disk space, I would much rather get straight to the point in text. I am
much more engineer/programmer than artist.
Quote from: Seth on May 05, 2010, 07:13:46 PM
I am not used to be the "calm down guys" man so i hope you'll understand my points...
You did a great job. Thanks.